How to say 'sorry about that' in Spanish in everyday situations
You say "sorry about that" in Spanish by matching the phrase to the situation: perdón or disculpa for quick, casual moments; lo siento when you genuinely regret something; le pido disculpas in formal or professional settings. The right choice depends on who you're talking to and how much the mistake matters.
The three everyday options you'll use most
Spanish doesn't have one phrase that covers every "sorry about that." You pick from three main registers.
**Casual, quick, low-stakes — perdón / *disculpa*** Use these when you bump someone, miss a word, or need to squeeze past. They're interchangeable in most of Spain and Latin America, though perdón leans slightly more "excuse me" and disculpa slightly more "my bad."
- Perdón, ¿me dejas pasar? — Sorry, can I get through?
- Disculpa, no te había visto. — Sorry, didn't see you there.
- Perdón, ¿qué dijiste? — Sorry, what did you say?
**Genuine regret — *lo siento*** This carries weight. You mean it. Use it when something actually went wrong on your watch: you forgot plans, broke something, gave bad info.
- Lo siento, se me olvidó por completo. — Sorry about that, I completely forgot.
- Lo siento mucho, no fue mi intención. — I'm really sorry, that wasn't my intention.
- Lo siento, me equivoqué. — Sorry about that, I was wrong.
**Formal or professional — le pido disculpas / *mis disculpas*** Clients, bosses, older relatives, anyone you usted. The structure shifts to third person.
- Le pido disculpas por el retraso. — I apologize for the delay.
- Mis disculpas, no volverá a ocurrir. — My apologies, it won't happen again.
- Le pido disculpas por la confusión. — I apologize for the confusion.
Everyday scenarios: which one fits
You sent the wrong file to a colleague Disculpa, te mandé el archivo equivocado. Te envío el correcto ahora. Casual disculpa works with teammates you tuteas. If it's a senior stakeholder: Le pido disculpas, le envié el archivo equivocado. Le reenvío el correcto.
You showed up ten minutes late for coffee with a friend Perdón por la tardanza, se me fue el tiempo. Lo siento, perdí la noción del tiempo. — slightly more owned.
You misunderstood a direction and walked the wrong way Disculpa, entendí mal. Ah, perdón, creí que me decías la otra calle.
You accidentally took someone's seat / drink / charger ¡Perdón! Creía que era mía. Disculpa, no me di cuenta.
You gave wrong info (price, time, address) Lo siento, me equivoqué. Son las cuatro, no las tres. Mis disculpas, le di el precio sin IVA. Con IVA son veintidós euros.
You need to interrupt or correct yourself mid-sentence Perdón, quise decir… Disculpa, me explico mal. Empezamos de nuevo.
Regional flavor: it's still the same three registers
In Mexico you'll hear una disculpa as a standalone phrase — Una disculpa, ¿me da la hora? In Argentina, perdoná with vos — Perdoná, no te escuché. In Colombia, qué pena often replaces lo siento for mild regret — Qué pena, se me pasó. The core three (perdón/disculpa, lo siento, le pido disculpas) work everywhere; the local variants just sound more native once you're there.
What not to say
- Lo siento por eso — grammatically fine, but natives rarely stack por eso after lo siento. Just lo siento or lo siento mucho.
- Perdóname — sounds dramatic, like you're asking forgiveness for a betrayal. Save it for real messes.
- Excuse me in English — if you're practicing Spanish, stay in Spanish. The Langel will model the switch back if you slip.
Practice pattern: say it, hear the correction, say it again
Pick one scenario from your actual week. Say the line out loud. If the Langel folds a correction into the reply — se me olvidó instead of olvidé, le pido instead of te pido — you hear the right form in context and repeat. Five minutes on three real situations beats memorizing a list.
Frequently asked questions
What's the difference between perdón and disculpa?
Almost none in daily use. Perdón leans "excuse me" (getting attention, passing by); disculpa leans "my bad" (owning a small slip). In Spain perdón is more common; in Mexico disculpa edges it out. Both work everywhere.
When do I use lo siento vs. perdón?
Lo siento means "I feel it" — you genuinely regret the impact. Perdón means "pardon me" — you acknowledge a friction point. Forgot a birthday? Lo siento. Bumped an elbow? Perdón.
How do I apologize formally without sounding stiff?
Le pido disculpas por… is standard professional Spanish, not stiff. Stiff is deseo expresar mis más sinceras disculpas por lo ocurrido. Keep it direct: Le pido disculpas por el error. Lo corrijo ya.
Can I just say sorry in Spanish conversations?
You'll be understood, but it marks you as not speaking Spanish. The Langel will reply in Spanish and model the natural phrase — así se dice: perdón — so you absorb the switch without a lecture.
With a Langel
> You: Disculpa, te mandé el archivo equivocado. Te envío el correcto ahora. > Langel: No te preocupes. Te mandé está bien; con le sería formal. > You: Ah, vale. Perdón por la confusión. > Langel: Por la confusión perfecto. ¿Algo más? > You: Lo siento, llego tarde a la reunión. Se me fue el tiempo. > Langel: Se me fue el tiempo suena natural. En formal: Le pido disculpas por el retraso, se me pasó la hora. > You: Le pido disculpas por el retraso, se me pasó la hora. > Langel: Listo. ¿Practicamos la del café? > You: Sí. Perdón por la tardanza, perdí la noción del tiempo. > Langel: Bien. Perdí la noción es muy tuyo. La próxima: qué pena en Colombia, perdoná en Argentina. > You: Qué pena, se me pasó. / Perdoná, se me pasó. > Langel: Exacto. Cinco minutos, tres registros. Nos vemos la próxima.
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